Stop abandoning yourself to keep everyone else happy.
A free 90-minute live masterclass with Abhha Sandill for women who look composed on the outside and quietly second-guess themselves on the inside.
- The 3 hidden shifts that rebuild self-trust
- Why people-pleasing keeps repeating, and how it stops
- A simple way to answer, What do I actually want?
100% free · No card needed · Stay to the end for the Self-Trust Reset Kit.
26 September 2026
10:00, 11:30 AM IST · 90 minutes
Only a limited number of interactive seats are open for this session.
- Free to attend
- 90 minutes, live
- Reset Kit included
Abhha Sandill, Self-Trust Coach, RTT Therapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist
- 1,200+
- Women guided
- 90 min
- Live, no replay
- 3
- Shifts you leave with
- 100%
- Free to attend
Trained and certified in
- Rapid Transformational Therapy
- Clinical Hypnotherapy
- Inner child healing
- Human development
What she says vs what she may really be feeling
Read the right-hand column slowly. That is usually where the truth is sitting.
I overthink everything.
I don’t trust my own judgment.
I hate disappointing people.
I fear rejection, conflict or being seen as selfish.
I’m exhausted.
I carry too much emotional responsibility.
I don’t know what I want.
I have spent years prioritising everyone else.
I lack confidence.
Part of me does not feel safe being fully visible.
I should be grateful, so why am I unhappy?
My life works, but it does not fully include me.
I’m too old to start again.
I am afraid I have missed my chance.
I feel guilty resting.
I have tied my worth to usefulness and productivity.
I know I am capable of more.
Old beliefs keep me playing smaller than my potential.
Everyone thinks I’m strong.
I don’t know how to let myself receive support.
None of this means something is wrong with you. It usually means you learned, very well, how to put yourself last.
This masterclass is especially for women who…
If you recognise yourself in even three of these lines, the next 90 minutes were written for you.
- Appear capable and confident but privately second-guess themselves.
- Find themselves saying yes when they really want to say no.
- Feel responsible for everyone else’s wellbeing.
- Struggle to identify their own priorities, preferences or desires.
- Feel guilty resting, receiving, asking or choosing themselves.
- Have achieved a great deal yet still feel not enough.
- Carry shame, fear or conditioning from earlier life experiences.
- Feel invisible in relationships, families or workplaces.
- Know they are capable of more but keep postponing their own dreams.
- Want to trust themselves deeply, wholeheartedly and unconditionally.
Maybe there is nothing wrong with your confidence.
A short invitation video from Abhha will play here.
Maybe you simply learned, over many years, to trust everyone else’s needs, opinions and expectations more than your own.
In this masterclass, I want to help you understand why that happens, and, more importantly, how you can begin changing it.
By the end of the 90 minutes, you will understand
Why people-pleasing becomes a pattern
How agreeableness gets learned early and quietly hardens into identity.
Why success doesn’t create self-worth
The gap between external competence and internal self-trust, and why it persists.
How conditioning shapes adult choices
The way early experiences keep influencing today’s decisions without your permission.
Why self-trust is built, not felt
Self-trust is evidence you create through repetition, not motivation you wait for.
How to choose yourself without guilt
Choosing yourself without becoming uncaring, selfish or hard to love.
A path from self-abandonment to self-leadership
A practical framework you can keep using long after the session ends.
Three shifts we’ll unpack together
Each one replaces a belief that has quietly been costing you yourself.
The Identity Wound
Your confidence problem may not actually be a confidence problem.
Many women spend years trying to be more confident without understanding the deeper beliefs underneath their behaviour. If you learned early that being agreeable, quiet, useful, perfect or undemanding kept you safe, those patterns follow you into adulthood.
- How subconscious beliefs influence identity.
- Why highly capable women can still feel not enough.
- How old conclusions keep shaping new decisions.
- Why healing begins with awareness, not self-criticism.
The Self-Abandonment Cycle
People-pleasing can look like kindness while quietly costing you yourself.
People-pleasing is not always generosity. Sometimes it is the repeated habit of checking what everyone else needs before checking what you need, until your own preferences, boundaries and dreams go quiet.
- How to recognise subtle self-abandonment.
- Why being good becomes emotionally expensive.
- Caring for others vs disappearing for others.
- How to begin choosing yourself without guilt.
The Self-Trust Shift
You don’t need to become another woman. You need to stop abandoning the woman you already are.
Self-trust is not something you wait to feel, it is evidence you build. Every time you listen to yourself, keep a promise, express an honest preference or take a courageous action, you create proof that you can rely on yourself.
- Notice what is happening.
- Name the pattern, need or feeling.
- Choose consciously, then act on the choice.
- Reflect, and repeat until self-trust is normal.
The Self-Trust Loop™
- Notice→
- Name→
- Choose→
- Act→
- Reflect→
- Repeat
Give yourself 90 minutes
Free live masterclass, limited interactive seats, and the Self-Trust Reset Kit for everyone who stays to the end.
The old way vs the Self-Trust way
Same woman. Very different relationship with herself.
Just be more confident.
Understand what taught you not to trust yourself.
Say yes to avoid disappointing others.
Choose consciously instead of automatically.
Wait for permission or approval.
Learn to validate your own decisions.
Ignore discomfort and keep pushing.
Listen to your body, emotions and needs.
Define worth through achievement.
Separate inherent worth from performance.
Keep everyone comfortable.
Build relationships where you don’t disappear to belong.
Ask What should I do?
Ask What do I know, need and choose?
Heal, Trust, Rise
Your circumstances deserve compassion. Your choices deserve attention.
Heal
Understand and release the beliefs, emotional patterns and conditioning that keep you small.
Trust
Rebuild a relationship with yourself through awareness, boundaries, choice and consistent self-honouring action.
Rise
Use that self-trust to become more visible, make courageous decisions, pursue your purpose and live with greater freedom.
What becomes possible when you rebuild self-trust
The aim is not to become selfish. The aim is to stop excluding yourself from the list of people you care for.
- Make decisions with greater clarity.
- Express preferences without excessive explanation.
- Say no without drowning in guilt.
- Stop outsourcing every important decision.
- Recognise unhealthy patterns earlier.
- Take better care of your emotional and physical wellbeing.
- Become more visible at work, in business and in relationships.
- Reconnect with forgotten dreams and ambitions.
- Build relationships based on truth rather than appeasement.
- Feel more aligned with who you actually are.
The shape of the session
Reflective, practical and paced so you never feel exposed.
- 00:00
Arriving
Settle in, and name honestly where you are with yourself right now.
- 00:15
Heal, the Identity Wound
How early conditioning quietly wrote the rules you still follow.
- 00:45
Trust, the Self-Abandonment Cycle
Spotting self-abandonment in your ordinary days, and interrupting it.
- 01:10
Rise, the Self-Trust Loop™
Building evidence, then a live Q&A and your Self-Trust Reset Kit.
Give yourself 90 minutes
Free live masterclass, limited interactive seats, and the Self-Trust Reset Kit for everyone who stays to the end.
Everything you receive
90-Minute From Invisible to Unstoppable Masterclass
₹9,900Live teaching, reflection and Q&A with Abhha.
Self-Trust Scorecard
₹1,999See exactly where you may be abandoning yourself.
7-Day Choose Me Challenge
₹2,499Seven small daily actions that build real evidence.
Come Home to Yourself Guided Audio
₹2,999A guided reflective audio recorded by Abhha.
What Do I Actually Want? Journal
₹1,499Prompts that surface what you have been postponing.
Total value
₹18,896
Your price today
₹0, Free
The Self-Trust Reset Kit
Yours free when you stay to the end of the live session.
Self-Trust Scorecard
₹1,999A guided assessment across decisions, relationships, boundaries, career, body, visibility and dreams.
7-Day Choose Me Challenge
₹2,499Seven small daily actions designed to create tangible evidence of self-trust.
Come Home to Yourself Guided Audio
₹2,999A short guided hypnosis and reflective audio recorded by Abhha to help you hear your own voice again.
What Do I Actually Want? Journal
₹1,499Prompts that surface what you enjoy, what you’re tolerating and what you’ve been postponing.
In their words
Real women, real shifts, in their own words.
The only words that come to my mind when I think of RTT and Abhha are “Zindagi badal di, waqt badal gaya” (changed my life, and that changed my time). There aren’t words to explain the enormity of the transformation I have gone through.
Nandini
India
Working with Abhha has been a life-changing experience. Abhha is knowledgeable, you can tell that she is passionate about what she has to offer others. She always put so much love and care every time I had a session with her, with her I really felt that I matter. She was listening to all my concerns, struggles/ challenges, and always me to find solutions that worked for me. I would 100% recommend working with Abhha.
Nathalie
UK
The things you’ve taught me about life, taking responsibility for your life, and the gratitude practise, it’s so valuable I can never thank you enough. You have no clue what you’ve done for me. It’s a blessing that you came in my life and guided me in such a positive direction. You changed my life in a big way. The gratitude practise and affirmations have been so so helpful in reforming me and making me feel more confident and loved. It’s something that I still practise and I think they will forever stay with me. Thanks Abha for helping me come out of my trauma. Love you forever.
Ankita
UK
Work that goes deeper than just be more confident
Abhha Sandill is a Self-Trust Coach, RTT Therapist and Clinical Hypnotherapist who helps women uncover the hidden beliefs and patterns that keep them second-guessing themselves, putting their needs last or feeling invisible in their own lives.
- Rapid Transformational Therapy
- Hypnotherapy
- Self-trust and identity work
- Inner child healing
- Women’s empowerment
- Compassionate coaching
- Spiritual wisdom and reflective practices
Abhha Sandill
Self-Trust Coach, RTT Therapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist
Abhha Sandill helps women break free from the invisible patterns that stop them living their full potential.
With a background in inner child healing and human development, she has long been fascinated by how early experiences shape the way people see themselves, their relationships and what they believe is possible.
Her work today combines transformational therapy, subconscious belief work, compassionate coaching and spiritual reflection to help women reconnect with their inherent worth and rebuild trust in themselves.
Healing is not about becoming someone else. It is about releasing what taught you to forget who you already were.
When one woman becomes more self-trusting and empowered, the impact does not stop with her. It reaches her family, her workplace, her community, and often the generations that follow.
- RTT Therapist
- Clinical Hypnotherapist
- Self-Trust Coach
- Inner child healing
Who should attend, and who shouldn’t
Being honest about fit protects your time as much as ours.
This webinar is for you if…
- You are genuinely ready to reflect.
- You want to understand your patterns rather than blame yourself for them.
- You are willing to try small behavioural changes.
- You are tired of constantly second-guessing yourself.
- You want healthier boundaries.
- You know you are capable of more.
- You want to feel more visible, purposeful and alive.
- You are open to psychology, subconscious work and reflective perspectives.
This webinar is not for you if…
- You only want a motivational quick fix.
- You are unwilling to examine your own patterns.
- You want someone else to make every decision for you.
- You are looking for emergency mental-health or crisis treatment.
- You require diagnosis or treatment of a medical or psychiatric condition.
This webinar is educational and coaching-oriented and is not a replacement for appropriate medical, psychiatric or emergency care.
Before you register
How much longer will you keep waiting to feel ready?
You do not need to solve your whole life today. You only need to make one different choice. Perhaps this is it.
Not for your family.
Not for your work.
Not for what everyone else needs.
For you.
Free live masterclass · 90 minutes · Includes the Self-Trust Reset Kit